A Whole New Black Courting Washington Dc Scene In 2012

A Entire New Black Dating Washington Dc Scene In 2012

Men, women, everybody, lend me your ears; I’m writing you today to drop a bomb on you. I didn’t know the severity of this issue until I started to talk to a few « brothas » who let me in on something major; racism.

Baby Momma: The older we get the more likely we are to run into an individual that has a child or two from prior relationships. Yet many men, well into their middle age years, flee from the perceived obligations of « a ready made family. » If you are in your 30s or beyond, eliminating a woman with children right off the bat reduces your dating options by at least 60%. Unless her children are bratty, undisciplined monsters, they will welcome your steadying masculine energy and love. Give it a try!

Joseph Paul Franklin committed his first long distance murder on October 8, 1977. He shot a man named Gerald Gordon as he was leaving his bar mitzvah in St. Louis, Missouri. Two others were shot, but Gerald was the only one killed. The following July, he attacked another interracial couple. Both were shot, but only the male, Bryant Tatum was killed. Joseph would later say that he liked attacking interracial couples where the male was black and the female was white. He would shoot the male first and the white women would not run. He said this as a way of insinuating that the white women who would white women black men dating site were stupid.

Five years later, my second son was born at a different hospital. This time, I did not receive a goody bag. Instead I received breastfeeding literature, a visit with a lactation consultant in the hospital room and a phone number for the local La Leche League. I don’t know if this hospital does this for every mother or only those that say they are breastfeeding. I hope they do it for everyone. But, I know there are still hospitals that give those dreaded goody bags.

Black women may complain about Black men from time to time. But, we see the potential of all Black men. We see the power they possess. We see the confidence they hold and how they can change the atmosphere of a room. We see them for not only who they are, but also who they can be. That’s why we have stuck with them through thick and thin for so long. Can’t we get the same from Black men?

All white and black dating sites are not ignorant sluts. In fact, many white and black dating sites are smart and have great morals. Just because a white and black dating sites may not be all that sharp doesn’t make all white and black dating sites ignorant. Just because a few white and black dating sites may sleep around doesn’t mean that all black men white women dating sites sleep around.

The thought is, « well if my mother did it, why can’t she cook, work, be sweet, love on me, get a degree, and hang with the girls. » Mama had to do what she had to do to survive and single Black mothers today, do what they have to do to survive and take care of their families. And sometimes brothers are seeking that soul of their mother in their woman, because they know that the soul of their mother helped them be the men that they are today and they need that to progress.

What I realize with a lot of these suggestions is the mere fact that I’m articulate. How sad is that?! That we have come to a place in life where we think either black men are all ignorant, put off by an intelligent black woman or unworthy of a woman who is educated. What a sad testimony of black America that we assume we shouldn’t strive to anything beyond the front porch and that someone educated would be detrimental to our development; if that is another black person.

Maybe Chris Rock is right. Maybe black women need to broaden they options and do more of black and white dating or date interracially in general. But no one should mistake this for desperation because its not. Everyone deserves to be loved and when you meet the one who sweeps you off your feet, instead of worrying about what the men or women of your race will think of it, act on your love impulse.

Well, I am looking everyday that you send me rubbles so I can come to Russia and we can start our Borat making. It is so beautiful that you write to me on the computer. Yes, I do have to wipe it down when I see you picture. You have such great form and structure.